1. Control.

    Take you clothes off” - I say, while sitting on the edge of the bed. Leaning back on my hands, my head tilted to one side, biting my lower lip. I’m trying to stay calm, in control. But inside my organs and mind are running amok. I swallow saliva and air over and over again, hoping you don’t notice how much in control you in fact are of this whole situation, in control of me.

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    I watch you undress. I watch you moan, licking your lips, shaking, never taking your eyes of me while one more piece of garment drops to the floor. Sweat is running down my face and hits my lips with a salty sting. I reach over and grab a cigarette, inhaling clouds of smoke into my lunges, then pushing them out through my mouth, clouding the image of a naked you before my eyes.

    I run my eyes up and down your body, I want to say sweet loving things, but you don’t want to hear them. Not now. This is not the moment where we are suppose to be civilized.

    I put the cigarette out and slowly make my way over to you, I can’t help but feel that as soon as I touch you the illusion will burst and you feel my unsteady hand, and not the stern touch you crave this minute. I kiss your lips, suck on your tongue, push myself down your throat while I grab your hair and crush it in between my fingers so hard that my knuckles turn white.

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    My tongue glides down your neck, leaving wet trails of spit on your skin. I bit your nipples, cup your heavy breasts and softly kiss them. My hands move all the way down to your knees. As I kneel before you. I look up at you while I’m caressing your thighs, kissing your stomach, breathing on your cunt that drips tiny drops of your juices on to the floor beneath you. ”get on the bed” - I whisper, in a drunken voice. I watch you crawl on all fours, ass in the air, black hair hanging down your face.

    You lay on your back, looking at me standing next to you, fully clothes but still naked, more naked than you. We kiss, and we kiss, and we kiss, and we kiss… Our lips are swollen, our tongues are rough and our chins are sticky. I move down between your legs and the scent of you hits me and I feel high, dizzy, intoxicated.

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    I kiss your right knee, slide my tongue down your inner thigh until I reach your cunt. I kiss your clit.

    I kiss your left knee, slide my tongue down your inner thigh until I reach your cunt, I kiss your clit – just a kiss, just your clit.

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    I look up at you to see where you are right now. Are you here or somewhere else? My tongue licks all of you, your juices filling my mouth, long strokes with my tongue again and again. Sucking your clit, playing with it between my lips. Wet sounds echos in the room mixing with moans and sobs. Sheets getting curled up in a ball. Skin and body trying to escape from what must be unbearable right now. Release me, give me a release.

    The release comes, and I never take my eyes of you, never take my mouth of you, never take my hands of you. I keep going until you hold my head in your hands and say ”Stop! Please stop”.

    You are breathing heavy. Your eyes close then open. Your skin shins with sweat and you beg me to come to bed, hold you and kiss you. ”look at me” I say while standing in the middle of the room. I start to undress. You raise your head and turn to your side, smiling with every garment that drops to the floor from my body. You are trying to stay calm, in control. But inside your organs and mind are running amok. You swallow saliva and air over and over again, hoping I don’t notice how much in control I in fact am of this whole situation, in control of you.

    We are both naked.

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    (Source: story-lab)

     


  2. Sexually Transmitted Emotions.

    I’ve never really sat down and thought about my relationships over the years or what kind of relationship I would like to be in. I never thought about my sexuality neither.

    I’ve always considered myself straight aka hetero, and most of my life my way of looking at a relationship was monogamous. Well, times change, people change and shit happens. I’ve been pegged and liked it. I’ve watched porn featuring transsexuals and jerked off to it. Fantasized about getting my freak on with a woman who happens to come with a cock, it’s all good. I would never ever accept cheating in any relationship I’ve been in through my younger years. I was a superficial, shallow motherfucker who went for looks over substance. I mocked the people I met who found the love of their lives through personal-contact ads in magazines and later on through dating sites on the web. I was an ass.

    In 1997 I suffered from a depression - (that shit sticks with you and comes creeping back into your life when you least expect it, you have to be vigilant and nip it in the bud) – for almost 9 months or so, I lived of coffee and cigarettes. I slept 12 hours a day, thought about suicide, cried at least once a day, lived in my cave with the curtains pulled down. I didn’t shave, shower or brush my teeth. In some miraculous way I managed to pull myself up, pull myself together – (don’t ask me how I did it because I can’t tell you) – I didn’t see a shrink, I didn’t take any meds. I changed my life.

    Fuck love! Fuck jealousy! And fuck you! Anything in my life I couldn’t get rid of or leave behind in 1 minute if the urge came over me was disregarded, thrown away – people, things – they had to go. For years I didn’t love, I didn’t hate, I didn’t feel anything, nothing. I was having fun, lots of sex, I was in relationships – open relationships with threesomes and lovers on the side – good times.

    But I got bored, as I easily do with everything. Years went by while I lived in my own little fun bubble. Then things changed, I fell in love, got my heart broken so bad I remember puking my guts out and getting the cold sweats with shakes on top of them. I went back to my old ways; Fuck love! Fuck jealousy! And fuck you!

    2013, welcome. I’m in love – not a crush – real love. The type where I want to meet her family, I want her to meet the inmates that inhabit the asylum that I like to call my family. I could live with her, I could put a ring on her finger, a baby in her belly. But we live very, very far apart from each other, we met on the internet – (see that, karma is kicking me in the balls for all the shit I gave those wonderful people years ago that found love online). We are both adults, we know we can’t be on opposite sides of the world and be celibate. She’s okay with me having sex with other women, I’m okay with her having sex with women (hey, I’m not perfect, alright, I still have some jealousy issues!).

    But I don’t want to have sex with other women, sure I watch porn and get my self-love on. I can look at other women and think ”I wanna bend you over that table and just rail your ass…” but I don’t re-act on it, I don’t want to, I don’t need to. I’m happy. Happy when I think about her and smile. Then overcome with sadness that I’m not with her – kissing her, smelling her, touching her.

    It’s all very new and confusing to me; meet a girl on the web, fall in love, openly discuss other women and men with her and not feeling jealous, at all! Telling her I love her and actually meaning it, feeling it.

    I have freedom, but I don’t use that freedom, I don’t want to, not now.

    No, love is awesome, jealousy is not, but it’s natural, embrace it and own up to the filthy motherfucker.

    (Source: story-lab)

     

  3. Domi Dollz & “Kinky Amour”

    Sexy salutations!

    We are from a company called Domi Dollz. Domi Dollz provides innovative educational performances which teaches the public about Kink and how it can be used to enhance their love & sex lives. We have lectured at Princeton University and have been featured on TV and in publications like ABC’s 20/20, The Wallstreet Journal, Time Out NY, Blackbook Magazine, Business Insider, Urban Daddy, and many more.

    Our head kink educators, Nina Payne and Mona Rogers, have written their first book called Kinky Amour. This eBook brings every element of Domi Dollz world-renowned workshops and events into one book for the public to experience in the privacy of their own home. Kinky Amour is a book for the woman and man looking to enhance their love and sex life through kink. Complete with photography and video tutorials performed by members of Domi Dollz (http://domidollz.com/dollz/all-the-dollz). We are scheduled to release this book January 2013.

    Kinky Amour is an introduction into kink and explores everything from communication, psychology, and safety to specific techniques like spanking, bondage and role-playing. This book has been designed to inspire the reader and to help direct her or him to discovering what works best for that individual.

    Domi Dollz is on Indiegogo to raise funds in order to bring this book to life and we are reaching out to you viewers in hopes you will support our cause and help make our dreams come true by helping us get our book out to the world.

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    What We Need & Contributor Perks

    Domi Dollz is setting out to raise a minimum of $10,000 for the production, publishing, and promotion of Kinky Amour. The money we raise from this fundraiser will all go directly towards the Kinky Amour project and will include:

    • Editing

    • Video production & editing

    • Photography

    • Website development & design

    • Book cover design

    • Publishing (self publishing)

    • Advertising & promotion

    While our minimum is $10,000, we hope to raise more money in order to produce this book at the highest level possible for our readers to enjoy and be able to get the book out to the world. We will be planning a book tour and will be promoting our book and classes across America and beyond. 


    *Aside from being incredibly grateful for your generous donations we have listed some fun perks on the right side of this page including our notorious “yes Mistress” shirts (http://domidollz.com/merchandise) and tickets to our naughty events!*

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    Author Bios

    Nina Payne

    Nina Payne (aka Kimi Inch) is the Founder and CEO of Domi Dollz. She has over 10 years of experience in the Kink scene both as professional and educator. In 2002, Ms. Payne began working at exclusive fetish parties while a DJ and club promoter in Tokyo. After much success in this “kinky” scene, she began to widen her experiences across the world.

    While she worked in varied fields such as fashion, music, and entertainment, her interest grew along with her exposure to the kink scene. Naturally, this took her beyond the entertainment aspect and in 2005 she began holding seminars and intensive training programs. Ms. Inch was hired by New York’s top dungeons to train their new employees and this eventually led her to bring her lesson plans to the mainstream as a way to teach the public ways of enhancing their sex lives through kink.

    The inception of Domi Dollz is not only the next logical step in her career, but an effort to elevate the world of Kink above the kitsch and cliché that have started to weigh it down.

    Mona Rogers

    Ms. Mona Rogers is a lifestyle and professional Dominatrix.  She has been experimenting with kink since she was a teenager and has been a fixture in the pro scene since 2007.  Counting Ms. Nina Payne as one of her first mentors, she has also had the opportunity to hone her skills and understanding of kink with some of the most respected players in NY and LA.  Throughout the years of her exploration she has become deeply in touch with her kinky side and enjoys being able to share her love for her art through multiple avenues such as workshops with the Domi Dollz, one on one lessons, and D/s couples counseling.

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    The Impact of Your Contribution

    Kinky Amour is a reflection of everything Domi Dollz represents and our sincere desire to bring a positive message about kink and alternative sex to the public as a way of liberating people sexually and shedding light on a subject that is normally considered to be taboo.

    Aside from wanting to bring a positive message to the world, we were also motivated to write this book after getting feedback from people all over the world interested in our workshops, but weren’t able to attend. We hope this book will bring people an opportunity to learn at their own pace in the privacy of their own home, and hopefully help them embrace their sexualities.

    Kinky Amour will not be anything like what is available on the market today. It’s not just informative, but it’s fun, sexy and sophisticated. While many things related to kink are shown in a very dark and cliché way, we will be bringing kink out of the dungeon and into the spotlight in a glamorous and playful manner. But what’s more exciting, this book will be the first eBook about kink that doesn’t only feature beautiful photography but also video tutorials.

    For questions, comments, or to donate privately feel free to contact us at: info@DomiDollz.com


    Thanks! Kisses & Spanks,

    Domi Dollz

    www.DomiDollz.com

    “If variety is the spice of life, kink is the spice of sex” ~ Domi Dollz

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  5. WIFEBUCKET; keepin’ it real – dang!

    Porn these days is getting more and more professional – lights, camera, action – the performers are becoming more professional, and also a lot more mechanical sadly. So what to do? Where do you go when you want something raw, something that feels real?

    Well, here comes Wifebucket! Amateur galore, real people, real sex, real wives with real bodies – actually enjoying some real fucking. Wifebucket is raw, the videos and photos are submitted by people around the net, that truly wants to share with the masturbating public – that being you and me. Everything from MILF’s over 40, interracial, swingers, before and after photos, even the exotic arab category is to be found at Wifebucket – there is truly something for everyone that enjoys men and women that could be your hot next door neighbour. There’s a reason Wifebucket is the number 1 most visited wife website on the internet, people.

    Right now Wifebucket is sitting on 3,000+ videos and 130,000+ photos, all of them 100% user submitted! And the site is updated every single day with sexy fresh hand selected material for your self-gratifying pleasure.

    My personal favorites on the site, is the many photos of lovely ladies getting their faces painted with thick, hot dick juice. Or the tons of videos, where wives are screaming in lust, as huge cocks fuck their wet, tight holes into orbit, as the ladies reach orgasmic black holes.

    Now my advise to you is; go check out the site, take the free tour and find your personal favorite wives – maybe you’ll end up feeling a little adventurous and then submitting your own salty sex rump(?).

    Cammy Palin is the feisty, sexy chick that curates this hotbed of horny honeys. One night I got wasted and mailed her a bunch of questions, in high hopes of her joining me for some webcam carnal fun. Unfortunately she was sober and not desperate enough … But she did answer my questions and you get to read them here, and just maybe get to know her little bit better.

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    Story-Lab: Cammy Palin, how did a nice girl like you end up in porn?

    Cammy Palin: I find this question totally inappropriate. Why does society think that only ”bad girls” have a place in porn? I’m pretty sure that this is discriminative.

    Story-Lab: Any relation to that freak from Alaska?

    Cammy Palin: Sarah from Alaska shot the mother bear who was taking care of me when my father left me in the woods. Long story short - Mowgli was his favorite superhero. He tried to find some wolves and talk them into raising me but they were very uncooperative and ate him. So, I ended up with a bear for a mother. So, yeah, I’m related somehow to Sarah Palin.

    Story-Lab: Are you DTF?

    Cammy Palin: It depends on who’s there to provide the F.

    Story-Lab: Wifebucket, tell what us the site is all about?

    Cammy Palin: Duh. As the name implies, it’s all about buckets hand-made by wives. We tapped strongly in the Mormon and Amish market and we are now looking to expand. As an addition, the site also shows said women totally naked and performing heinous sexual acts. Basically, if you are a MILF wife who can either make beautiful buckets by hand OR is willing to send us her naked pics - you have a place in the Wifebucket family.

    Story-Lab: Why should I make Wifebucket my site of choice when I need to bust a nut?

    Cammy Palin: Please don’t. You need diversity. Wifebucket has nothing but amateur MILFs and I would find it disturbing if you only bust that nut to us. Also, we have enough pics and vids for over 35,000 acts of self-loving (how I calculated this is a company secret) and you might damage yourself in the process.

    Story-Lab: How has working in porn been treating you so far?

    Cammy Palin: Awfully. I find it harder and harder to get a wettie. It’s like being a kid in the 80s and now - back then, you only needed a sideboob for a serious 2-hour-long hard-on and now it takes at least a German bondage video to get mildly aroused.

    Story-Lab: Sex, what’s not to like about it?

    Cammy Palin: There’s nothing NOT to like about sex. The hard part comes when it’s over and you don’t know what to do. Smoke? Cuddle? Leave? Bury the body? Choices, choices…

    Story-Lab: Will we ever see you naked on the internets Ms. Palin?

    Cammy Palin: You should check your facts better. Or google for ”Sarah Copafeel”

    Story-Lab: Tell me what makes a MILF?

    Cammy Palin: Two indisputable facts must exist at the same time and in the same place - you have to be over 30 years of age and there must be at least 2 younger guys who want to fuck you.

    Story-Lab: Can people submit their own videos and photos to Wifebucket? How would they goabout it?

    Cammy Palin: If people don’t submit their homemade sex tapes to me, there would be no Wifebucket at all. Everything inside the site was sent by our members and visitors. Send us your stuff and we’ll give you a free membership and make sure that most of the internet fappers get to know you intimately.

    Story-Lab: Ever masturbate at work?

    Cammy Palin: I’m required by my contract to do it at least 3 times a day. Otherwise, it is considered that I’m not fully engaged in the work process and am threatened by fines and/ or firing.

    Story-Lab: What kind of porn do you like to get of too? Girl-on-Girl, anal, facials?

    Cammy Palin: This depends on what day of the week it is with a small adjustment measured by how many beers I’ve had. I am known for getting off to an Iron Man trailer so you do the math. It’s a safe bet to say that amateur swingers and amateur threesomes have the highest chance of making me go down on myself - luckily, there are lots of those at Wifebucket. My boss considers this a bonus so I get no sick days.

    Story-Lab: Social media, how big a role does it play in porn these days?

    Cammy Palin: Fuck if I know. I just post on Twitter so that I don’t have to do real work but my boss thinks that it’s good for spreading the Wifebucket word around. I let her have her dreams and we’re all happy.

    Story-Lab: Is there such a thing as watching too much porn?

    Cammy Palin: Porn is the only thing in the world which we can’t get enough of. There’s always someone somewhere fapping to something - and this gives me much faith in humanity. The government may take our freedom, our civil rights, our choices - but the man is wise enough not to touch our porn. I think that it was Thomas Jefferson who said that All tyranny needs to gain a foothold is for people of good conscience to stop watching internet porn“. Or was it someone else? Anyway, you get the idea.

    Story-Lab: Most embarrassing sex-story? Go!

    Cammy Palin: I am having this filmed as a reality show and can’t really go into details but one of the stories would include me, lots of beers, a sexy couple, moaning sounds behind the night club, sirens, lights, and me calling ”shotgun” when the cops started pulling me to the squad car. They still put me in the back, though.

    Story-Lab: What does one get when entering Wifebucket?

    Cammy Palin: It depends on whether I managed to get the site down again or not. I’m kidding - well, not really but it only happened like 3 times. OK, 10 times. Luckily for the 40,000 members, our script ninja Brett is always around to spank me for being a bad girl and to fix it. But, back to your original question - well, you get to see whatever our members sent us. Pics, videos, more pics, some more videos, etc. What I can guarantee though is that everything is homemade and MILF-y. Cross my heart.

    Story-Lab: What’s going on with Wifebucket in the coming months?

    Cammy Palin: I guess the usual - more updates and more work for me. Also, we have started re-working the member area to include streaming videos, tags, a search function and whatnot. If you ask me, the site is perfect as it is but Brett wants to play with scripts and my boss lets him - so I guess there will be some serious changes.

    Story-Lab: Gimme’ all your links! Website, Twitter, Facebook, Tumblr and phone number.

    Cammy Palin: I think I have more profiles but I can’t remember them now. These are the ones I keep updated the most.

    Cammy Palin: Twitter

    Cammy Palin: Facebook

    WifeBucket: Face Book

    Cammy Palin: Tumblr

    This piece will also be posted on Whack! Magazine.

     


  6. Smart Porn -Interview with Anna B. Volk of Darling House.

    Dr. Anna B. Volk: Scholar, reviewer, writer, Brazilian.

    http://darlinghouse.net/beta/blog/2012/01/03/dr-anna-b-volk-scholar-reviewer-writer-brazilian/

    A couple of days ago Anna B. Volk wrote a blog post about how she no longer could call herself a feminist 15 top reasons why I don’t want to be a feminist anymorehttp://darlinghouse.net/beta/annabvolk/2012/04/07/feminist

    Now if there’s one thing Story-Lab loves, it’s controversy (and Brazilians, and beautiful smart women). So of course there was only one thing to do; sit our ass down with Dr Anna B. Volk and pick her mind about subjects such as Brazil, media, feminism, pornography, sex, gender and almost everything else between heaven and Rio.

    Honestly, we just love to hear her talk, so we kept asking her questions until she told us to shut up and get out!

    The following interview is long, but amazing. So grab yourself a cup of coffee, a glass of wine, light a smoke and sit back.

    Story-Lab: How did you come to study and emerge yourself into the world of pornography? How did you come to write about it from an academic point of view?

    Anna B. Volk: While still an undergrad, I got involved with research on Feminism and AIDS; throughout my Masters, I broadened my research to LGBT literature, feminist history, and female madness. Yet, something was always missing: the feeling was that I was after what was always veiled and unspoken, and in the academic world a lot of what is done is “for shows”, so it was really frustrating not to be able to dig deeper into taboo issues. It took me nearly 15 years to establish myself and be able to keep myself distant enough from the all the lobby and political correctness to really get involved with something I like writing about, something which is this massive unmentioned presence when it comes to gender relations and economic issues. So basically now I can write – and publish, and present – research I have been doing for a long, long time, but in a more independent and non-affiliated way.

    Story-Lab:Recently you became a part of the Darling House collective, how did that come to happen?

    Anna B. Volk: It all started with a personal blog where I used to publish material I was producing about the porn industry – independently, and mostly movie reviews and articles which were close to the way I am used to writing when I need to present something for the academic world. I was just writing things, publishing them, and “advertising” on Twitter. Joshua Darling and Sovereign Syre read some of that material, and invited me to be part of Darling House – which stoked me beyond words because it was a project I had fallen in love with already, as spectator, and to be able to become part of it instantly validated all I have been doing in terms of research and production.

    Story-Lab:You’ve taken an academy approach to pornography and sex. Especially concerning pornography, some people would say this doesn’t even deserve to be considered an academy/intellectual subject of discussion, unless other than maybe for the sole purpose of condemnation?

    Anna B. Volk:There will always be people who condemn pornography: it has been fought so badly throughout ages that it will always carry some sort of stigma. Any depiction of sex, in reality, is still received with discomfort and disbelief – and the idea that it might contain any political message is just too much for some people to handle. When it comes to pornography and the academic world, people tend to be quite black or white: there are those who condemn it vehemently – and for this I can see a lot of feminist bitterness and pornography condemning still lingering in the air – and there are those who just ignore it. Of course there are scholars who have been dealing with pornography academically for some time now, but those are cast aside even by their colleagues.

    The academic world – at least in Brazil, because this is the one I belong to – is one of the most prejudiced, racist, homophobic, and segregationist spaces I have ever encountered. To openly deal with pornography is to fight constant battles by having to justify myself and my work on daily basis. I have to fight the conservatives, the feminists, the more traditional scholars, the race based theorists, the prude, the pseudo-intellectual: basically it is a one woman’s fight. The only solace rests with the queer sphere, and even there I have to be careful not to find myself justifying what I do with every article written.

    My approach to pornography is open and direct: I refuse to hide it behind metaphors or figures of speech, and I see it as the only possible space for real gender and sex discussions in a society that is still averting eyes to some topics such as queer rights and marginal sexualities, while pretending to accept it. And this is too harsh on people – especially scholars, who think of themselves as so avant-garde and open-headed, but who are confronted with their own limitations when something like my research is posed in front of their eyes.

    Story-Lab:What genre of pornography turns you on, what kind do you find yourself drawn to the most?

    Anna B. Volk: This is as fluid as water. When I started watching porn it was gay porn that was appealing to me – the raw, strong, violent desire that cannot be faked or mimicked. Later, lesbian pornography caught my eye – and by lesbian porn I mean movies produced exclusively with women. Nowadays, I have been experimenting with watching parodies and new releases which present the audience with a new proposal, be it in terms of plot, structure, casting. And there is also the non-professional porn that is blooming in streaming sites: the amateur category, as it might be called. I surround myself with all sort of pornography, so it is impossible to be drawn to only one specific kind.

    Story-Lab:What performers in adult do feel yourself being turned on by – not just physically, but also mentally – which ones plays as much to your body, as your intellect?

    Anna B. Volk: I find Zoey Holloway to be one of the most interesting performers nowadays. I have written an article on the female gaze and cinema spectatorship, and she is the best example of the power of the gaze when it comes to pornography. Ela Darling, Dylan Ryan, Katsuni are performers who present me with refined discussions on pornography and art and exquisite performances.

    But Sovereign Syre is my personal puzzle – the more I get to know her the more dazzled I am by her. Sovereign is like a visit to Alice’s wonderland on the best acid you can find: philosophy.

    Story-Lab: When you review an adult movie, what are the things you look for, the criteria of which you judge it?

    Anna B. Volk: I wish I could say I am drawn to how sexuality – and mostly female sexuality – is portrayed, or how plausible a situation looks, but the reality is: I want it to be well done. To my eyes, this means how much the movie was cared for. I am tired of pornography being made on a second-rate basis: if you want recognition on whatever it is you do, you have to do it well. The idea of getting two girls and a guy in a hotel room and shooting it is over: audience now wants to see more than “just” the sex.

    And this is what I focus on when I am watching a movie for a review: how well constructed the whole feature is. This includes lighting, camera work, setting, soundtrack, basically the same categories a non-porn reviewer would pay attention to, but at the same time this is not what I should be reviewing, because the “pornographic” part of the film is normally what people are after.

    So what differentiates a porn reviewer from a non-porn one is that the elements that should serve as springboard for evaluation on a porn film cannot be associated only with form and no function! A true review would easily happen fostered not by content per se, but by technical elements (plot, lighting, camera, performances, etc) which should please the spectator’s eye without taking the leading role in the perception and experiencing of the film, but it is difficult to differentiate between what is physiologically pleasing to me and what meets certain standards when it comes to the recognition of quality in a porn production. So this becomes a harder task than I had ever imagined it would be – and this is what makes it so incredible to me.

    Story-Lab:Is there a danger of intellectualizing sex and porn too much, talking the passion, danger and lust into boredom, into a point of where it’s not interesting anymore, where it becomes too civilized?

    Anna B. Volk: Sex is instinct. It is survival. It is inherent. If it comes to a point where it is being too tamed to fit niches or market expectations, it will find a way to escape. If pornography bounds sexualities into stiff armoires, if too much politics starts shaping pornographic scenes, or if too much intellectualization is done, sex will rebel and transmute somewhere else. There is no possibility sex – in its essence – will ever become civilized. That would go against sex’s nature in itself.

    Story-Lab:Do you consider yourself a feminist? And do you think it is possible to enjoy mainstream pornography as a feminist?

    Anna B. Volk: Had you asked me this questions around 10 years ago, I would have said “YES!” loud and proud, and shaken flags and slogans at you. But in the past five years the feminist dialog has bored me beyond tears. It keeps on repeating that same chant from the 70s, that women are oppressed and are not given opportunities to blossom and, at the same time, I do not see any changes simply because the women who are worried about it are just sitting in auditoriums speaking to upper middle class white college girls, instead of actually doing something about it. Of course I am talking in terms of Brazil – this is the reality I have contact with – but the dissatisfaction with feminist theory is something which is starting to emerge worldwide simply because we are just fed up with a lot of talking and not enough changing.

    I have been inside the academic world for nearly 20 years now, and a good part of those years I spent over feminist theory books, and I can tell you that, in their majority, they are segregationist, class based, race based, and are unable to see the world as a unit, choosing to fragmenting it, and this – nowadays, with globalization and all, is just not plausible anymore.

    When the issue is pornography, for example, feminists tend to either condemn it or to approve of it as an empowering tool for women, but not once did those same feminist owed up to watching porn. In other words, feminism approaches pornography with a ten feet long pole, and is unable to recognize that some women do like it. This is precisely the kind of contradiction that has pulled me away from feminism, and that is keeping me so distant from feminism as political position.

    Story-Lab: There has been a growing criticism directed towards porn, stripping and prostitution for some time now around the world – both from religious, conservative and feminist groups – it’s almost as if we’re seeing the sexual revolution being turned backwards, why do you think that is?

    Anna B. Volk: Honestly? I think people need to come up with real issues to tackle soon, otherwise they just keep on beating the deadest of horses. I refuse to debate on any religious positioning about sex workers because it is an obvious and outdated issue – if people still want to wonder whether any church has the rights to dictate over things outside their perimeter, they can debate that without me. When it comes to conservative issues, and right now we have the whole debate in America about Rick Santorum and the porn industry, for example, it is just a matter of eliminating any religious content in those people’s ideology to understand it is an empty and shallow discussion. Feminist groups have to stop protesting and start watching porn before they fight it, because most of the time they don’t even know what they are talking about. So until real issues take shape things are bound to go in circles and nauseate whoever is watching.

    Story-Lab:Being Brazilian, could you tell us your feelings and thoughts on how the country of Brazil – the people of Brazil – are being portrayed in European and North American media, is it a accurate or a false depiction?

    Anna B. Volk: Brazil is so plural it is difficult to get to a common denominator in terms of identity and characteristics. It is always amusing to see Brazilian people portrayed in foreign media, because they are always extremely stereotypical and so far-fetched. From Sonia Braga as Theo’s teacher in The Cosby Show up to Xavier Barden’s character in Eat, Pray, Love, the way Brazilians are portrayed is so far from reality it is hysterically funny.

    One of the closest depictions of the people and the country I have seen was Rio, the animation – and although that was over simplified, because it was made for kids, of course, it is still the closest anyone could get of a Brazilian national identity. In the end I guess we Brazilians might be oversimplifications, because we are just so many and so different that it is impossible to group us in any ways – so it is easier to just mix us all up and present an audience with whatever comes out of it.

    Story-Lab:Is there a lack of stories based around the Brazilian middle class and everyday life from foreign media and entertainment?

    Anna B. Volk: The Brazilian middle class has been parroting the American middle class for so long they have only recently been able to understand they lack their own identity – and this is coming to light through the work of some artists who belong to the same middle class they are questioning. I have seen in Brazilian television and in movies a growing trend towards accepting that fact and building national identity from it, instead of fighting it as a form of politic protest against imperialism or any other thing like it.

    If there aren’t enough stories around the Brazilian middle class in foreign media, trust me, there aren’t enough stories about us on our own screens either. We need to build our own tradition of portraying Brazilian middle class before we can blame our invisibility in foreign media. And that would worry me if this was not changing: we have more films being produced now than in any other period of Brazilian cinematography, and they are focused on Brazilian issues and being accessible to people abroad.

    Story-Lab: What is your opinion on the stereotype of Brazilians (especially women) being oversexed and hyper flirtatious? A stereotype that is often being pushed by media and entertainment in Europe and North America.

    Anna B. Volk: The feminine body that needs to be colonized by the white supremacy, its mysteries and hidden lures, and how it seduces precisely because it is different and unknown, all this justifies the type of stereotyping that Brazilian women go through: it is still about the colonization of people and how white, phallocentric cultures perceive distant lands. For Europeans and North Americans, the Brazilian woman is still Brazilian forest: dark, moist, inciting, dangerous: and it needs to be discovered and conquered and ravished and explored.

    My first instinct is to say there is nothing wrong with stereotypes. Then I think about the characteristics which are attributed to Brazilian women and it enrages me a little bit because in some circumstances it might put women’s safety in jeopardy: I myself have faced some quite uncomfortable situations in Europe because somebody found out I was Brazilian and immediately thought I was available for sex. On the other hand, this happens within Brazil: Brazilian men tend to perceive women as being both Eve, the snake, and the apple. And I refuse to see this as detrimental to Brazilian women at all, because if dealt with the correct way this can be quite empowering.

    Story-Lab: Many men around the world praise the Brazilian woman as the perfect woman – both their mentality and looks – what is it that makes Brazilian women so special and desirable to the men of the world outside of Brazil?

    Anna B. Volk: They do? Which Brazilian woman are they desiring and praising? It amuses me when I see generalizations like these, because I myself cannot come to a conclusion about what the Brazilian woman looks like. Is she like Giselle Bündchen, Alice Braga, Thais Araujo?

    There is no doubt Brazilian women are highly regarded around the world, but to be honest with you I do not know what all the fuss is about. No, I am not being humble… [Laughing].

    Story-Lab:Brazil seems to be going through a lot of changes these days, what is it like living in Rio de Janeiro now, as oppose to living there 5 years ago?

    Anna B. Volk: There is no doubt that economically Brazil has grown tremendously in the last 10 years. Not many foreigners are aware of this, but we lived under a dictatorship until 1989, and only then we regained the right to vote – and it took some years of practice in order to be able to understand that oligarchies were not the way to go. Differently from the rest of the world, in Brazil politics are divided not into republicans vs. democrats or conservatives vs. progressives, but into upper class vs. lower class parties, something which is hard on a good fraction of the population who still perceives power and money as belonging exclusively to an aristocracy. We come from a structure of farmers and slaves, and this dichotomy is still explicit in our politics.

    The growth in the economy has improved tremendously our daily lives, because it just makes life more comfortable, of course. In terms of politics things are more left based right now, so more polemic discussions (such as gay rights, abortion, etc) are taking place more often, and with more positive outcome. The general atmosphere in the country is very optimistic, but I will not deny it: we still have a long ways to go before we can say the ship is sailing smooth.

    Story-Lab: With Brazil growing and being a nation that is worth keeping one’s eye on these days, do you think Brazil could also become a major player in high-quality adult productions?

    Anna B. Volk: I see Brazil in the same place of western European countries when it comes to adult productions: it is cheaper, easier, and simpler to shoot here than in America, for example, because legislation and law enforcement is just non-existent. So in one hand we have people who are not performers but sex workers who see in adult film production a chance to make a little bit more money, and on the other still a lot of social stigma in terms of the adult film industry. To sum things up: there is absolutely no chance a word like “empowering“ can be applied to any aspect of adult film productions in Brazil, and the majority of the films we produce are amateur, second-rated, and even legally questionable. As a result, I do not think Brazil will make it to the list of quality adult production anywhere in the near future.

    Story-Lab:Brazil can come off to a foreigner as a very religious country, but also a very promiscuous country. If you were to generalize a bit, what are the sexual ‘morals’ of Brazilian men and women?

    Anna B. Volk: Brazil is so diverse it is literally impossible to reach a common denominator when it comes to ample topics like these. In big cities, like Rio de Janeiro and São Paulo, for example, the moral codes are more flexible than in other capitals, like Belo Horizonte or Porto Alegre. The bigger the city the more flexible moral codes will be, of course, but even that depends on the region in Brazil the city is located. Having suffered colonization by so many different ethnicities generated a sort of schizophrenia of morals in Brazilians, and even the amount of recolonization suffered nowadays – with the internet, cable TV, etc. – will influence how men and women will perceive morals.

    Ironically, I perceive Brazilian women to be less relaxed in terms of their bodies than the European woman, for example. People fail to understand that wearing skimpy clothes might have more to do with a scorching heat than with sexuality, and sometimes the Brazilian woman is perceived as flirtatious when she is just following a fashion that aims at comfort. It is actually illegal to go topless in Brazil, and I know of only one nudist beach in Rio – and only one person who has visited it… So if I were to compare Brazilian and European women in terms of how they express their sexuality and how they deal with their own body, I would have to rank the European woman over the Brazilian one in terms of less morals.

    Story-Lab: The internet has broadened how people are able to interact sexually today; we can Skype, chat, email, share photos, audio and video, all with a sexual content to it. Is there a danger of forgetting the sex in the real world and cyber fucking becoming the norm, or is it just another spice to real world sex?

    Anna B. Volk: Would you turn down a fuck date to stay home and wank in front of a screen? This discussion first started when the Internet came about, and people were worried that the virtual world would take over all “3D” interactions, but the truth is nothing will ever replace human contact. The Internet has made the whole screening process more thorough, if anything: a late-night bar pick up can now take place on a chat room or social media site, but I highly doubt people would exchange real sex for cyber sex.

    Story-Lab: How much of the interaction and attraction, between men and women, can be summed up to biology and sociology, which plays the bigger role in how we act as genders?

    Anna B. Volk: I think the relationship between men and women is so harmed right now… As consequence of part of the feminist movement, and its relentless effort to portray men as enemies, we have created a gap between men and women that makes it impossible for us to get together and communicate. It is like there is a big valley between us, and all we can hear are our own words echoing forever into the void. And as a result we, as women, are always so doubtful of men, and they are always resenting “games” we play to protect ourselves, and in the end it is more about proving the other wrong instead of experimenting the other. It saddens me that such barrier will remain insurmountable until we – as women – realize we keep on bringing up the same men we are running from.

    I see human beings as essentially sexual bodies – we have sex to orgasm, which differs from most animals. On the other hand, we have been socially regulating sex since Victorian times, so all sexual interactions can be seen as plastic and fake right now, and here is where pornography takes a gigantic importance, in my opinion, because it makes this discussion explicit. No longer can we rely on nature to dictate our sex lives, and nurture is just too full of constraints to be able to be used as parameter either. What is left is a void that can only be filled by some serious discussion on sex as a personal act instead of a political one, and pornography is the best ground for such discussion to happen.

    Story-Lab: Is it true that a woman decides within 3 minutes & 30 seconds of meeting a man if she’s ever gonna have sex with him? And if she decides no, then there is no way of changing her mind?

    Anna B. Volk: [Laughing] I did not know there was a time span… but I guess if anyone – men or women – are not flexible to review their first impressions, they are not worth fucking at the first place.


    Anna B. Volk on Twitter: http://twitter.com/AnnaBVolk

    Anna B. Volk on Darling House: http://darlinghouse.net/beta/annabvolk/

     


  7. A little somthin’ somethin’ I wrote for ZZinsider about moaning… For dudes.

    Click the link to read it…

     


  8. Emily McCombs writes:

    “I might prefer that my big controversial sex preferences involved whipped cream or whatever instead of wanting to be slapped in the face during intercourse, but that is not the hand I was dealt”

    Click the link to read a great article over on xojane…

     


  9. I think about Anna B. Volk more and more…

    She’s the architect, she’s the Brazilian and I’ve never met her. Still I find myself thinking about her more and more.

    The past couple of weeks I’ve had the most uncontrollable urge, a voice that keeps telling me to move too Rio de Janeiro for three months, write a book about it and take photos of Anna, photos of Anna naked, but she’s shy and I’m nervous.

    I feel like I know her, but I don’t really know her – you can’t know somebody you’ve never see in real life, someone you’ve never touched, never heard their voice … But maybe I know her, I like to think I do, it’s all an fantasy properly. Something I’m building up inside my head that will come tumbling down once reality happens.

    Anna writes about porn, she’s an intellectual, a academic, educated – I am not, well, not in the sense that I’ve gone to school, cause I’ve haven’t. I’m self taught. I have picked up the right books without any professor telling me what to read or what to think, I’ve sought out knowledge on my own.

    Anna can make me feel inadequate sometimes, intimidates me, but she still turns me on – I love looking at her eyes, her hair, I love the few photos I’ve seen of her body, she’s so beautiful, but she doesn’t seem to know it.

    It’s not only her appearance that gets my attention, it’s her mind, her thoughts, her words – she impresses me, she makes me smile, makes me wanna do things with her … too her, with her.

    From time to time, I try to get close to her, but she keeps me away at a arms length, maybe she’s scared, maybe I’m being a dork to her, I don’t know(?).

    There is so much I want to tell her, talk to her bout, but that will have to wait until I see her, if I ever get to see her. Maybe it’s best to keep it unreal, too keep it in virtual reality, things tend to get complicated once you can reach out and touch each other.

    Anna is part of the Darling House artist collective, this is where her reviews of pornographic films are, where her thoughts, views and opinions on gender, sex, society are written and where you and I can get lost in her words, in her world.

    A world that is as captivating as a jungle, it’s warm and bright with colors, the sights and sounds of Anna B. Volk and it welcomes you with a smile.

    It’s a jungle I could get lost in, I could crawl up and die in, and ever regret a single thing.

    Anna B. Volk and her writings at http://darlinghouse.net/beta/

     


  10. I got a chance to write an article for ZZinsider (Brazzer’s SFW site). Go check it out!

    “Neutral Grounds: Why Sex is Better in a Hotel”

     


  11. Bastard!

    I ended up fucking some random girl from my phone book this morning. Well, not so random. We’ve had sex before – a couple of times – but it seems like ages ago.

    I didn’t really fuck this girl, as much as I masturbated inside her. She was a object, a substitute for the woman I really wanted to fuck, but couldn’t.

    The woman I wanted to fuck the shit out of – lives far, far away and properly doesn’t want to fuck me (?) but she turns me on, makes my cock throb, puts a lump in my throat, makes my mouth dry out, my balls curl up, my vision blurry, my heart race and fills my mind with uncontrollable thoughts … She makes me loose control.

    I’ve masturbated to her so many times I’ve lost count. I’ve printed her pictures out and shot my load of semen all over them. I’ve tried to trick her into talking dirty with me – but with no luck – which is properly for the best.

    This morning I called my old fuck buddy, she invited me over and the fucking began – not much talking, not much foreplay – not much of anything other than raw sex!

    I kept my eyes closed almost the entire duration of the fuck, I kept seeing the other woman’s face, recalled her voice.

    When it was all over, I ran to the shower, I didn’t even look at the girl who I just had my cock inside off. As soon as the shower was done, I ran out the door – the guilt, the shame, the horror – the realization of me being a egotistical, utter asshole was too much for me.

    At the same time it had felt so good, so wrong. There were moments where it almost felt like I was really fucking her, fucking the one I wanted and not the sub.

    The mind and it’s power is one hell of a powerful thing. 

     


  12. Rocket.

    Her name was Rocket and she knew how to suck it and fuck it. Down on her knees eating her crack. Spread eagle on her back, sucking on her big rack. When it came to sex there was no lack or slack.

    Rocket had her strap-on and she would cock it, deep in my ass, she would fuck it ”take it bitch boy, I know you love it!”. The door behind us, she forgot to lock it.

    Her mom came in, took a glace at my cock and didn’t knock it. All I could think about was ”should I beg her to suck it?”. Before I knew what to mean, Rocket screamed ”Fuck it!” and I began to cream. The first load Rocket had ever seen.

    Rocket was mean, if you know what I mean? 6’1 redhead with a gangster lean, and the most pornographic body a teenage boy had ever seen, it made all his friends green.

    20 years later Rocket was smoking crack. She now took good money for a roll in the sack, but looking at her in the frosty night, she still wasn’t whack, she still had a large lickable rack.

    Laying the cash smack down on the table, watching and drooling as Rocket opened her locket. Crawled on all fours towards me getting ready to suck it. I could not wait, until I once again had the chance to fuck it. Rocket stuck her ass up, I slammed down my whiskey cup. I’ve had enough, it was time to fuck.

    A fistful of redhead Rocket as her ass rubbed my cock and proceeded to mock it. I wanted to punch my hand deep inside her and use Rocket as a sock puppet.

    Me and Rocket was pissing the days away in the shower. Golden days, golden showers for hours and hours. Rocket fuel in my mouth and on my body, we were oh so ever naughty. ”What kind of man are you?” she would ask me, with her green or grey eyes. I would answers ”I’m a Rocket man”.

    Rocket became the first woman on Mars. She went where no woman has gone before. She was a small step for sluts, a giant step for whores. I didn’t go with her cause I’m afraid of heights, and Rocket is a tall drink of strawberry lemonade, never spending to much time in the shade, but always getting laid.

    In my pocket, I always will remember Rocket, the redhead amazon that would whisper in my ear ”I love it”.

     


  13. Orgasm.

    It’s that moment you get a little bit afraid, even though you’ve been working towards it all this time.

    Now it’s here and you are gasping for air. Your muscles tense up, you feel a tingle starting in your toes working it’s way up through your legs. Further up your spine, when it finally hits your mind.

    It’s like a high that only lasts for a second or two, while some other person is looking at you.

    Your muscles relax and you feel numb, safe and a glimpse of serenity, like a little child sucking it’s thumb.

    It’s the anticipation that sometimes taste the best, not the climax it self. The build up, the fight to hit the switch that turns on the light.

    Your stomach is tight, you’re out of breath, the room is blurry, your speech is slurry. As you get closer, you start to hurry.

    This is when your mind hums a sullen tune, your neck spasm and you wish this feeling would last forever.

     

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  15. Sex and the City – Interview with Quickies in New York.

    About a month ago I tumbled upon a tumblr named ‘Quickies in New York’ and immediately it caught my attention, not to mention my libido.

    Quickies in New York is based on original erotic content that is made by three people – stories from Guy New York, photos by The Dirty Gentlemen and styling assistance from Ms. Dorothy Darker.

    There is no Carrie, Miranda, Samantha or Charlotte to be found on the pages of QNY, and if they are there – well, you can be sure that they are engaging in graphic acts that not even HBO would be able to show you.

    I had the opportunity to ask the storyteller of QNY – Guy New York – a couple of question about the start of and future of – Quickies in New York.

    How did QNY start out?

    GNY: The first dirty things I wrote were letters. I had a job my freshman year of college where I sat at a desk every Saturday morning and answered a phone that never rang. So, I wrote letters to friends from high school. Very very dirty letters. Surprisingly, they wrote back to me!

    I started a journal shortly after that where I gave myself free reign to write down whatever fantasy I liked, no matter where it took me. I filled a notebook or two of short stories and for years they sat in my top drawer collecting dust.

    In 2009 I was feeling stuck on a novel I was working on, and I remembered how much I enjoyed writing dirty things. So, I decided to see how many short little stories I had in me. I wrote seven in two days and realized that they might never stop.

    I set up a tumblr account (largely to see how it worked as compared to other platforms) and started posting them. I got caught up following people, re-blogging photos and stories, and writing writing writing. I posted everything from dirty haiku, to longer stories from male and female perspectives. I told real stories and made up stories, and somewhere along the line I got a few fans. People wrote to me and said they actually liked what I had to say, and that was it. I was hooked.

    Are the stories on QNY fictional, real life experiences or a mix of both?

    GNY: I like to say that my stories are fan-fiction of my life. And that’s often true. Many of the stories do come from my life, although they don’t always happen exactly the way I write them. Many come from memory, some come from friends, and a good percentage of them are daydreams, fantasies, or love letters to partners telling them what I might enjoy.

    How big a part does porn play in your life? Do you get any inspiration from porn to write? Where does your inspiration to write come from?

    GNY: I don’t read very much erotica, and I don’t especially watch very much porn either. I used to read Literotica fairly often, and if I’m looking for a quick fix, then I still go there sometimes. With video content, I’ve always found the search to be as exciting as the finding. It’s the rare occasion when I find something that turns me on, but it’s incredibly satisfying when it does. I don’t think it’s had a huge influence on my writing other than inspiring me to do better though.

    Most of my stories are very immediate. I sit down to write them, I put the words down on the screen, and then I publish them. Which means that much of my inspiration comes from whatever is on my mind at the time. I often try to think of my turn on and go from there. Sometimes it’s a memory, sometimes it’s a daydream about an upcoming date, and sometimes it’s just a first line that leads into a story I never expected.

    What interests me most are the emotional interactions that come around sex. What makes us feel dirty and excited at the same time? How does guilt and jealousy play out in our lives, and what do we do when things don’t work out just how we’d like them to?

    With the name Quickies in New York, does the city itself play a role or a character in the photos and stories? How does NYC impact your stories?

    GNY: I’ve always felt that New York City is a character in the blog. I’ve struggled with how to pull that in more, because I get distracted by the details of story, but I do want it to feel located here in the city. We’re working harder in our photography to bring the city even more into focus.

    When someone has read a story on QNY, looked at the photos - What is the one thing you would like for that person to get out of it?

    GNY: I’d like them to get so excited they have to immediately touch themselves until they release the most mind blowing orgasm possible. And then I’d like them to think about sex as a real part of their lives that’s fun, scary, silly, exciting, tiring, overwhelming, and completely wonderful.

    But mostly I want them to get a sense that sex isn’t always difficult. That we have some control over how much drama and fear we experience, and that open minds and open hearts can lead to wonderful things.

    Where do you see QNY headed to in the future?

    GNY: QNY works well as a blog, but there are ways we’d like to expand as well. We have a gallery exhibit planned, which includes photos and stories, and we’re working on some more video projects. We’d also love to do a photo book both digitally and printed along with more e-books of stories.

    I’ve worked indirectly in the publishing world for the last seven years, and so the creation of media in all sort of forms is a strong passion. One of the great things about this project, is that it’s evolving on it’s own, based mostly on what feels fun and exciting to us. So, we want to keep making things, and publishing them, and see where they take us.

    Make sure you visit the website: http://quickienewyork.com/ and follow ‘Guy New York’ on Twitter: http://twitter.com/Quickiesnewyork

    Quickies in New York has five e-books available on http://www.amazon.com/ They are: A Very Sexy Christmas, Brorotica, Quickies In New York, Stories. Simply Smut and Hana.